Hi everyone! New to this forum.
Little backstory -
I was misinformed and uneducated when I got my 10 gal tank. Unfortunately, it caused many causalities before I did enough research to know about cycling. I would have done fishless (which I wish I had done from the beginning) but I had one lone survivor from when the tank was brand new.
So it’s been cycling fish in, I’ve been testing the water like a mad woman and just really staying on top of things. Since my one fish is a neon tetra and they like to school, I thought it would be safe to add in one more. That way he had a friend and I would have a little bit more of a bioload in there to help the cycle. Now I know this is often warned against but I got conflicting information/advice and decided to do it.
I spent quite some time acclimating the new fish today because there was a drastic PH difference between lfs and tank. I was so excited to finally transfer him and was pleased to see how well he handled the first few minutes. Most of the previous fish acted very differently after transfer before dying shortly after, so I thought this was a good sign.
Well pretty soon after, my excitement turned to horror. My old neon tetra immediately started bullying him. I know it is normal for them to chase but he hasn’t left him alone at all for about an hour now. He’s also fin picking quite a bit. No visible damage to the new fish yet but I can’t imagine it’s good for an already stressed out fish going into a new tank to have this stress as well. I can’t even go to sleep cause I’m so worried he’s going to die tonight. Not that there’s anything I can really do at this point... the new fish is a little bigger than the old one but not by much. He’s not fighting back either, he just runs away.
I’m just feeling discouraged. I messed up originally by even getting myself into this before cycling. But now I’m feeling like I messed up again by adding a friend. I thought that he’d be happy with one more, before I could add in 4 more to make a school. I don’t think the tank could handle 6 just yet since it’s not fully cycled. Everything I am reading is saying this behavior might continue until there is a school... so now I’m thinking maybe it would have been better to have only one for a while longer.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? And if so, is it really going to stay this bad until I add more, or will he back off a bit? Any other advice? I thought about taking him back to the fish store but I don’t know when I will have time over the next 2-3 days. I thought about taking the old fish out and rearranging the tank to help with territory issues.. but I don’t know much about how to even go about that. Would I just fill a bowl with the tank water and him? How long should I leave him out? Ugh so many questions. I’m just constantly being surprised about how hard this whole aquarium thing is and even though I’m determined and giving it my all, I just keep messing up along the way. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys.
Little backstory -
I was misinformed and uneducated when I got my 10 gal tank. Unfortunately, it caused many causalities before I did enough research to know about cycling. I would have done fishless (which I wish I had done from the beginning) but I had one lone survivor from when the tank was brand new.
So it’s been cycling fish in, I’ve been testing the water like a mad woman and just really staying on top of things. Since my one fish is a neon tetra and they like to school, I thought it would be safe to add in one more. That way he had a friend and I would have a little bit more of a bioload in there to help the cycle. Now I know this is often warned against but I got conflicting information/advice and decided to do it.
I spent quite some time acclimating the new fish today because there was a drastic PH difference between lfs and tank. I was so excited to finally transfer him and was pleased to see how well he handled the first few minutes. Most of the previous fish acted very differently after transfer before dying shortly after, so I thought this was a good sign.
Well pretty soon after, my excitement turned to horror. My old neon tetra immediately started bullying him. I know it is normal for them to chase but he hasn’t left him alone at all for about an hour now. He’s also fin picking quite a bit. No visible damage to the new fish yet but I can’t imagine it’s good for an already stressed out fish going into a new tank to have this stress as well. I can’t even go to sleep cause I’m so worried he’s going to die tonight. Not that there’s anything I can really do at this point... the new fish is a little bigger than the old one but not by much. He’s not fighting back either, he just runs away.
I’m just feeling discouraged. I messed up originally by even getting myself into this before cycling. But now I’m feeling like I messed up again by adding a friend. I thought that he’d be happy with one more, before I could add in 4 more to make a school. I don’t think the tank could handle 6 just yet since it’s not fully cycled. Everything I am reading is saying this behavior might continue until there is a school... so now I’m thinking maybe it would have been better to have only one for a while longer.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? And if so, is it really going to stay this bad until I add more, or will he back off a bit? Any other advice? I thought about taking him back to the fish store but I don’t know when I will have time over the next 2-3 days. I thought about taking the old fish out and rearranging the tank to help with territory issues.. but I don’t know much about how to even go about that. Would I just fill a bowl with the tank water and him? How long should I leave him out? Ugh so many questions. I’m just constantly being surprised about how hard this whole aquarium thing is and even though I’m determined and giving it my all, I just keep messing up along the way. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys.