Female Platy chasing the male platy?

Danu

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So, I've read a lot about how you should keep more platy females than males to disperse his sometimes aggressive and tiring advances. In stocking my little five gallon tank, I got 2 platies, both of whom looked like males. However, after some confusion, I think the bigger one if female. The little male definitely has a gonopodium thing, but the other one had a black find that was always folded tight. Once she got used to the tank, she spread that fin and now I think it's a girl. Not only that, but she's gotten a little bigger, in length AND width a little bit. (Do platies grow that fast o_O)

Annnyways, I wondered if I should get a third platy so the male doesn't do anything stressful. but I need not worry apparently - the male is rather shy and wile they coexisted fine, he's recently taken to hiding! It's like they had an argument while I was away. >_>

I fed them to see if he came out when looking around the tank didn't help. He did, but then the big female chased him all around the tank until he hid again. o_O' I thought ...well I thought the male did the chasing?

The female is tough. She hovers in the tank like she owns the place, knows when feeding time is, knows who I am and that I have the food, doesn't bother the cories, tells the Male off when he does this little dance, and now, all of a sudden, keeps him in hiding. O_o She likes to mess with my betta whose tank sits right next to hers, she picks at the tank decorations, probably getting little bits of food or algae or something off things, and swims with some major confidence. o-o

So...is this just a personality thing? Or is it not normal? Or maybe she's really a he and he's really a she? o.O OMG or maybe she's preggers and she's gone hormonal? x_x! She doesn't seem to nip at him, just herds him back into the little tree stump house. Next time I feed them I'll watch more carefully and make sure he's getting food cuz I couldn't tell when I fed them today.

...o-o
 
Most platies have mild-temperaments, but I once had a female that was just plain evil. She chased all the other platies around the tank relentlessly, she was extremely aggressive. After several days, and all my fish in hiding and her stalking, I returned her to the LFS and exchanged her for another female. Not that you should return her, but it may be her personality and she'll never change. I'd be sure to give the male plenty of hiding places. I'd watch the male carefully to be sure he's able to eat, and his health doesn't suffer.
 
@danu, i see that you posted this absolutely ages ago!! but im glad its not just me, but my female does the exact same thing to my male, poor little fella, i feel so sorry for him, lol my female looks abit fat too, and they were the best of buds wen i got them about a week ago but now?? it is exactly like theyve had a row, lol so im currently thinking about buyin another female so hopefully shell be nicer to him and he wnt be so shy?? oh i dunno? maybe i shud buy another male? i really dnt know, lol but anyways i was wondering if you could maybe tell the out come of what happened amongst yours in the end?? was she pregnant? were they friends again? did they live happily ever after? :D x
 
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