When are Bristlenose sexually mature typically? (What size, rather as I am unsure of the age of the fish)
Can you snap a couple of pics of her belly against the glass and a head shot looking down from above? 3" still could be too early to show bristles. I have 1 year old males that are just beginning to show little nubs but I also can tell now by the mouth shapes and bellies regardless of stubs or not at this age.